I embarked on this holiday season as a bit of a scrooge. Even though we've tried to limit buying for years, our house still bursts at the seams with stuff. I still spend hours every week cleaning stuff, organizing stuff, decluttering stuff and so on.
As we dragged down boxes of holiday decorations and I began, once again, arranging stuff, I wanted to scream: NO MORE STUFF!
It's not just my family and its not just Christmas. The world just does not need any new stuff. Our forests, oceans and skies are depleted yet our landfills are full. Instead of busting down doors for the newest gadget, we need to learn to reuse what we, collectively, have.
Enter my Seven Steps to Nothing New Christmas.
1) Switch to a White Elephant Gift Exchange: Five years ago, my extended family moved from drawing names to a White Elephant exchange. The rules are simple. You can give something you already own or you can spend up to $15 on something new (almost always consumables). This switch has ignited our family from ho hum holidays to laughter and tears. No one dares skip a holiday gathering for fear of missing out on the event. The trash talking starts as early as September: "Ohhh, wait until you see what we're going to give this year." "I hope no one saved that hideous clown picture from last year." The exchange, itself, is a raucous event with pictures taken, gifts snatched and memories made.
Here are the kids last year, starting their own White Elephant exchange.
2) Shop Your Closest and Save Your Clutter: I declutter on a regular basis but before I list items on Freecycle or haul them to the local thrift store, I cull out the nicer items - things that are new or nearly so, high quality vintage or handmade goods and so on. For instance, a good friend very much wants a marble rolling pin. I have one that I've been meaning to let go. Gift match made in heaven!
3) Shop Second Hand: Whether looking to reduce one's footprint or sustain one's bank account, giving used gifts is officially "in". Antique stores are a classy route but thrift and consignment stores are, in my opinion, totally legit. Many items are new, in the package, or like new. Don't forget garage sales, eBay and Amazon (used books) as well. Beyond scoring some really sweet finds, it is important to support second hand retail outlets. Our town just lost a treasured antique mall due to increased rents. If the demand was higher for pre-loved goods, we might have more space in our landfill.
My niece's gift: a book she requested from a library sale (brand new condition), a thrifted lunch box to wrap it in and a fox coin purse handmade from scraps.
4) Make Your Own Gifts: I've been busy knitting for my kids and their cousins, all with yarn that has been clogging up my closet. It's a win win because I'm decluttering while creating meaningful items for people I can about. As onerous as this sounds, I've opted for small and simple - picking quick knits rather than projects that take months to put together.
Here is my answer to the "Collect Them All" little plastic toys that my kids always want. Each of these stuffies only took a couple of hours to knit. I made them all from scraps and they fit perfectly inside a repurposed egg carton.
5) A Garden of Gifts: If you, like me, are a gardener, your yard is a shopping mall full of gifts. While the flowers are mostly gone by now, I do still have some citrus, greens and herbs - any of which would make a lovely hostess gift. With more planning, I could also be giving propagated plants and collected seeds - not only unique gifts but ones that encourage planting of natives or heirlooms in a world badly in need of biodiversity.
6) Can You Can Can?: If yes, you can give some of summer's canned goods. Jams, preserves, jellies and pickles are all special gifts and can be combined with garden gifts in a second hand basket for teachers, co-workers, friends. If you bake, a loaf of pumpkin bread or persimmon tea cake or such would also be a wonderful addition.
7) Couponing for Good: Finally, give future favors. Personally (hint hint!), I would adore coupons for babysitting, a cooked meal, cookies of the month, cut flowers from your garden in the summer. You get the hint - or at least I hope you do.
Here are more thoughts on how to give used items as gifts.
So far, my nothing new Christmas is going exceedingly well. Consumables aside (because what is wrong with farmers' market olive oil and honey!), I'll probably only end up with a couple of new new gifts . . . and I'm feeling a whole lot less scroogey.